Corinna Hughes
New Appreciation
We visited an orphanage today, after riding ostriches and visiting a crocodile farm. As we pulled up in the bus children gathered curiously, but as we prepared our donations they stood back patiently. Even when we offered stuffed animals and costume jewelry they were hesitant and remembered to bow politely before accepting. As we offered them second stuffed animals they waved the first and bowed away, leaving the extra for another child. There were young children caring for younger children; some gave their extra goodies to the kids there were carrying, others gave away their only toy to a friend near by. The amount of kindness, and affection these boys and girls shared with each other warmed my heart.
While we nibbled at the food that was prepared for us the children sat on the steps smiling broadly at each other, adjusting their jewelry, and looking pleased. Mr. Dang lead us around their living quarters and explained the arrangements. Boys in one room, girls in the other; both filled with bunk beds, and thin mats. ‘There aren’t enough bunks for all of them Mr. Dang.’ Our reply: ‘No, a few have to double up of course.’ Really, all they have to share are thin mats, because there are no pillows or mattresses to speak of.
All of this makes me ponder why we are so quick to complain about the heat, how long a bus ride will take, and the fact that we don’t have any music to listen to. The happiness, and togetherness these children show, amazes and inspires me. Although they don’t always have toilet paper, new clothes, or tooth brushes, they all get along and are happy. I would like to be able to learn from these children to appreciate my experiences, and all that I am privileged enough to have.